The Promise

In this episode Ally gives mouth-to-mouth resuscitation to an overweight lawyer, and saves his life. She then meets his fiancée - they are getting married next week. She says they are in love, but then the guy tells Ally that there is no romance for him. He is settling for what he thought was all he could get. He asks Ally if she would consider him. Ally thinks that no-one should settle, and so the wedding gets called off. However, before the end of the episode Ally changes her mind, at least for him, and they end up getting married. People should definitely not 'settle' when getting married. I think that is a bad start. I know that people tend to put themselves in certain categories and say they can't get that certain someone because they are in a different category - and that might be right - to an extent. But there is nothing that says that we can't change ourselves into the type of person that our special someone would want. What are your thoughts? Can we make those changes? Always?